@tdaniel, I feel the same. I started in canoes, but found that the kayak seating is easier for me to sustain forlo ger periods. It also lets me get out in open water and exploreplaces that I can’t reach by canoe.
I enjoy reading the high adventure stories, the travel and exploration, camping experiences, and the wild surfing opportunities in playful boats. For myself, i prefer a room, stable boat on a body of water that I understand. I’ve been in some strong conditions, but have never felt the need for a spray skirt or felt that my boat would be overpowered or overturned.
The key is to understand your abilities and limitations. If conditions don’t feel right, they are not right. By understanding features and trending weather patterns, you can return to paddle another day. I’m most comfortable paddling alone, because I know the conditions that I take on can be managed based on my personal skill.
A new paddler should befriend other paddlers with local knowledge and never venture further from safe landfall than they are able to reach if conditions turn foul. I learned early on that a 9 ft boat will only make a fraction of a mile per hour going into a 15 mph headwind generating 18 inch waves. When the boat isn’t adequate for conditions, your perseverance and awareness of how to use land features to mitigate wind and current will help you manage the threat.
It doesn’t matter how great your boat is, the most important asset is your physical endurance, knowledge, skill, clear thinking, awareness and prudence - learn and live.
That’s the reason I place so much emphasis on speed, endurance and efficiency. It’s less important to be able to paddle fast, than it is to know how long you can paddle at a sustained speed under the conditions. Even more critical is whether you will be able to push harder when you reach your physical limit. I once turned back from a 27 mile trip, because I didn’t feel comfortable being alone for 13 1/2 miles over a period of 3 1/2 hours - it wasn’t beyond my ability, but it was beyond by confidence zone. My personal comfort limit is 2 1/2 hours from a safe landing. Even being with another skilled person doesn’t make the experience any safer, it only endangers the other person. Be aware and be safe.